Whether you navigate the world primarily through sharp logic or deep intuition, it is entirely possible to find yourself completely stuck.
Perhaps you are very analytical, used to solving life’s complexities with your mind, yet you find yourself "living from the neck up" - intellectualizing your patterns without actually being able to change them. Or perhaps you are very intuitive, deeply feeling everything around you, but you feel overwhelmed, ungrounded, and unable to anchor your insights into a stable, functional reality. For many, the result is the same: a profound sense of exhaustion from constantly trying to think, feel, or force your way through life.
True transformation doesn’t happen by adding more theories to an already crowded mind or by overriding an exhausted nervous system. It happens when you intentionally slow down, drop into the present moment, and build the inner capacity to bridge the gap between what you know and how you actually live.
Whether you need an immediate breakthrough to clear the mental fog or a supportive, structured space to gently untangle deeper, long-standing blocks, this work is designed to help you return to a grounded, integrated version of yourself.
True, lasting change cannot happen solely in your head, nor can it happen by ignoring your intellect. My approach bridges the gap between modern behavioral science and deep mindful awareness, providing a structured, grounded framework tailored to how your specific system functions.
Science-Backed Psychology:
We utilize evidence-based psychological tools to understand the architecture of your mind. By looking at your behavioral patterns, cognitive loops, and conditioning through a psychological lens, we don't just guess why you are stuck - we map it out clearly.
Nervous System Regulation:
Drawing from my background and certifications as a mindfulness trainer, we work directly with your physiology. You cannot think your way out of an exhausted or overwhelmed nervous system. While I do not teach yoga classes here, I utilize deep presence and breath-based practices to help you drop out of the "mental noise" and shift your physical state from stress to clear, grounded alignment.
The Power of Integration:
This is why I work as an Integration Specialist. In the coaching world, insight is cheap, but integration is rare. A breakthrough during a session is only valuable if it survives your actual life. We focus heavily on the practical integration period between our sessions, ensuring your mental insights become lived realities in your day-to-day routine.
I hold a fundamental belief in your inherent capacity for clarity, resilience, and growth. You are not a problem to be solved, a machine to be fixed, or a collection of broken patterns to be analyzed indefinitely. You are already whole.
My role is not to hand you a standardized blueprint or to act as the ultimate authority on your life. By blending professional psychological insights with evidence-based mindfulness practices, my goal is to empower you to reconnect with your own inner voice and uncover your ultimate truth. Together, we work to strip away the noise—the overthinking, the emotional overwhelm, and the exhaustion—so you can clearly hear, trust, and live by your own inner guidance.
To respect your unique pace, lifestyle, and goals, our work together is structured into two distinct paths: deep-dive targeted intensives or comprehensive, multi-month trajectories. Both frameworks are entirely private, highly focused, and customized to your specific needs.
The 3-Hour Deep-Dive
A singular, intensive 180-minute breakthrough session designed to step completely out of standard time constraints. We create the spaciousness needed to deconstruct a core bottleneck, quiet the noise, and map out a concrete, manageable path forward. Includes a built-in 15-minute breather to rest and process.
The 3-Session Kick-Start
Three distinct 90-minute sessions to focus on a specific theme, gain immediate traction, and establish foundational practices to help you begin shifting your day-to-day energy and alignment.
Bespoke, multi-month containers for deeper, long-term personal work. Sessions are intentionally spaced out rather than weekly, as the time between our calls is just as valuable as the coaching itself - giving your insights the necessary space to breathe, settle, and naturally integrate into your daily life.
The 8-Week Trajectory (6 x 90 Minutes)
A dedicated path to help you bridge the gap between understanding your patterns and actually shifting your daily habits. This framework is ideal for anyone navigating a major life transition, hitting a personal plateau, or looking to break free from repetitive, draining mental loops.
The 12-Week Trajectory (10 x 90 Minutes)
Our most comprehensive and supportive path for those fully committed to doing foundational inner work. This extended timeline provides a safe, steady, and unhurried space to look at, understand, and untangle deeply rooted behavioral patterns and emotional blocks.
Choosing a multi-session trajectory offers a steady, reliable rhythm of support and a reduced rate per session to honor your commitment to the process.
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Your Investment |
we meet Online |
we meet in Nature |
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The 3-Hour Deep-Dive • 1 x 180-minute session
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€495 | €575 |
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The 3-Session Kick-Start • 3 x 90-minute sessions |
€595 | €695 |
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The 8-Week Trajectory • 6 x 90-minute sessions |
€2,150 | €2,595 |
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The 12-Week Trajectory • 10 x 90-minute sessions |
€2,950 | €3,650 |
If your company, employer, or a corporate entity is covering the cost of your coaching, a corporate pricing structure applies. This accounts for the additional administration, custom onboarding, and business invoicing requirements. Please mention this during your initial inquiry so I can provide a tailored proposal for your organization.
Languages:
The entire process—including sessions, intake materials, and ongoing communication—can be fully conducted in English, Dutch (Nederlands), or German (Deutsch).
Nature Logistics:
Nature sessions take place rain or shine. However, if extreme weather compromises your safety or physical comfort, we will seamlessly pivot to an online session for that day to preserve the continuity of your process. Locations are chosen together based on accessibility and your physical comfort.
You don't have to figure out the path forward all by yourself, and you certainly don't need to think your way through it alone. If you feel ready to slow down, quiet the mental noise, and build a life that genuinely feels like your own, I am here to walk with you.
Whether we connect on screen or out in the elements, we will create a steady, supportive space where you can finally stop overthinking and start simply being.
To ensure this work is the right fit for where you are currently at, the journey from your initial inquiry to our first official working session follows a gentle, three-step process.
The journey begins with a simple, no-pressure conversation to see if our energies align. Follow the three steps below to book your consultation, and let's explore how we can bring your life back into true, grounded alignment.
Reach out via the contact form to share your current situation and indicate which framework feels like the right fit for your goals.
Before our introductory call, I will email you a brief reflection form. Taking a few quiet moments to complete this allows you to clarify what you are currently navigating, where you feel stuck, and what you hope to shift. Please return this to me well in advance of our conversation.
Once I have reviewed your reflection form, we will connect for a focused, 20-minute phone call. Having your insights beforehand allows us to bypass basic introductions and speak directly to what matters most, ensuring we both feel confident that this methodology supports your path forward.
If you feel a quiet "yes" to this work, let's connect. No pressure, no rigid expectations - just a grounded conversation to see how we can best support your path forward.
Mindfulness & Positive Psychology Coaching
Registered VMBN / Mindfulness Register Trainer with AGB code & Certified Psychologist
Locations & Service Areas
Serving Haarlem, Overveen, Bloemendaal, Zandvoort, and Online via Zoom.
Sessions are primarily held online or outdoors amidst city parks, quiet nature, and the beach and dunes.
For specific group trainings and longer projects, beautiful local studio spaces can be arranged.
Contact: [email protected]